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My Kids Confronted Me About My Drinking

January 30, 2025

Picture the scene: eight empty wine bottles lined up on the kitchen table, my two daughters sitting in stern silence, my son within ear shot in the adjacent room, and me—walking in with an XL Dunkin’ Donuts cup full of wine, about to demonstrate exactly how addiction hijacks both brain and behavior.

What happened next reveals the three distinct voices that battle inside someone struggling with addiction:

  • The rational voice trying to find a way out
  • The disease voice defending and deflecting
  • The real voice of the person underneath, desperately wanting to cry for help

Which voice won? And what does this tell us about why our loved ones act the way they do when confronted about their addiction?

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