The Night He Died

I totaled my parents’ car while driving drunk. I was 19 years old. The party ended at 1:00 AM and I didn’t want it to end, so I talked two girls into going with me to New York from Framingham, MA. “The bars are open all night there”, I told them. They both fell...

How Do You Set a Healthy Boundary?

I hear it all the time… “I can’t sleep.”“I missed work to bail them out.”“I’m feeling totally overwhelmed.”“She just keeps calling me.” These are exactly the sorts of instances where a healthy boundary can make all the difference.  Not to keep your loved one out,...